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The Wedding Industrial Complex

Something old, something new, something super overwhelming, something truly fun.
The Wedding Industrial Complex
Jonathan Woodward


Were Weddings Always This…Extra?

In our parents’ generation, most weddings took place in a house of worship, followed by a cake and punch reception in the basement or a local VFW hall, and everyone was decked out in polyester. No one was going for a “viral moment,” and videographers and photo booths weren’t a thing.
But something shifted in Roxy’s and Katelyn’s lifetimes: today, many couples feel every detail of their wedding needs to reflect their unique personalities, and the wedding industry has exploded, to the tune of $1 trillion globally in 2025. No wonder wedding planning feels by turns fun and exhausting.
In this episode, as Katelyn prepares for her July wedding, and producer Jonathan prepares for his September one, we reflect on the pressures women, especially, face as they prepare; what values guide our planning; and how to stay present on the Big Day (pro tip: get a day-of coordinator if you can!). 

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