March 21, 2016

Nun recounts rape, abuse by priest in memoir backed by Catholic Church

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The cover of "Giulia and the Wolf," a graphic account by an Italian nun of her childhood abuse by a priest. The books is being published with the support of the Catholic Church. Photo courtesy of Ancora

The cover of "Giulia and the Wolf," a graphic account by an Italian nun of her childhood abuse by a priest. The books is being published with the support of the Catholic Church. Photo courtesy of Ancora

ROME (RNS) The Catholic Church, under scrutiny for its response to clergy sex abuse scandals, is backing the publication of an Italian nun’s shocking account of her rape as a teenager and years of subsequent abuse by her parish priest in Milan.

The 40-year-old nun, who has not been identified, claims the unnamed priest raped her when she was 14 and continued to abuse her for another seven years.

The sensational book is titled, “Giulia and the Wolf: A Story of Sexual Abuse in the Church,” and it is due to be published in Italy on March 31 by Ancora, a Catholic publishing house.

The memoir is also being published with the backing of the Archdiocese of Milan, one of the largest and most influential in Italy, and a priest, the Rev. Hans Zollner, who is a member of Pope Francis’ panel on fighting clergy sexual abuse, has written the preface.

The Vatican daily newspaper, L’Osservatore Romano, also re-published Zollner’s preface in its Wednesday (March 23) edition.

Graphic excerpts of the woman’s abuse have been published in the Italian media. The nun, who goes by the name of Giulia — or Julia, in English — recounts her story in the first person to Italian journalist Luisa Bove.

“He had a kind and paternal way,” says the nun in one excerpt. “He invited me to undo my pants and then helped me take them off. He did the same with his underwear. I was ashamed, I was tense and I didn’t know how to behave.”

The nun lives in a convent and has never before revealed the abuse she suffered.

“He was my spiritual guide. In the face of all his requests I didn’t know how to say no. I know that something in me was dead, because he succeeded to do to me whatever he wanted,” she said.

The idea to publish the book came after Boston Cardinal Sean O’Malley, head of the Vatican anti-abuse panel, spoke about clerical sexual abuse on a visit to Milan.

According to reports, the abusive priest worked for years in the Milan archdiocese and died recently.

The nun wrote that she encountered him several times as an adult. “He said to me ‘I have never forgotten. I hope you have forgiven me.’ I replied impulsively, ‘Certainly many years ago.'”

But, she adds: “I discovered that forgiveness never occurred because I realized that we had never been two lovers, but a victim and a tormentor. Our relationship was one of abuse and violence. How was it possible to forgive him then? I never did, not even today.”

According to Italian media, the nun divulged her story to church officials last year.


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Zollner, who also heads the Centre for Child Protection at the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome, told RNS on Monday (March 21) that the book was a significant step for the church.

“This is the first time a full story about clerical sexual abuse has been written in Italian by an Italian,” he said. “This is the first courageous statement of that kind. This should not be surprising when you see what Pope Francis did when he invited abuse victims into his home to meet them.

“It is not extraordinary that representatives of the church endorse it. It should be honored and encouraged.”

Zollner’s preface in the book is headlined “Victims must be heard” and he congratulates the nun for her courage and resilience in telling her story.

Francis met victims of clerical sexual abuse at the Vatican and in Philadelphia during his visit to the U.S. in September. He set up the Vatican Commission for the Protection of Minors in 2014.

But Francis has continued to face criticism for not moving more quickly to discipline bishops suspected of covering up for abusers and for not yet establishing universal policies for churches to follow around the world.

(Josephine McKenna writes for RNS from Rome)

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  • Tina

    As long as she gets the money made off the book and the vatcan and diocese or her religious order don’t capitalize on it.

  • Can’t wait for all the others (nuns0 to COME OUT.

    SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!

  • patrick

    @ Tina

    Surely you’re not serious….don’t nuns take a vow of poverty, chastity and obedience?

    The nun had to get permission from her bishop to write the book. His control over everything from that point on is TOTAL and COMPLETE.

    The book will be published by a Catholic publishing house – probably owned by the Vatican. This will allow changes to be made to the second printing should there be too much heat on the church for not catching this abuse 25 yrs ago. To think no one knew is absurd.

    Don’t think for a minute that this book won’t be heavily censored from the nun’s original words. It will be turned into a piece of PR propaganda which will leave the church and its perverts smelling like roses.

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  • Hanora Brennan

    What about the babies born to nuns resulting from these rapes? Here in Ireland the nuns were ostracised to children’s institutions and hidden until delivery. Did these children become mere statistics in the abuse litany?

  • Dennis Sagt

    Do we know that this story is true?

  • And the point of someone making up such a monstrous lie would be what,Dennis Sagt? I await your reply.After all,it’s not as though Roman Catholicism hasn’t already lost all so-called ” moral authority “concerning this issue,no? You need to get a clue,my friend.PEACE.

  • Leon

    This is one of hundreds of cases of a awful crime within the walls of this institution. Who will profit from the earnings of this book and believe me watch how some many will follow its lead to profits not leads to stopping these acts of terror forever.

  • Maria Monk

    Yep, no one ever makes up monstrous lies, especially about the Catholic Church. I should know!.

  • Elizabeth D

    What a strange attitude. She did not “have to” get permission from the bishop (it’s not required under Canon Law), she WANTED TO get permission. The book is published by a Catholic publisher (surely not the Vatican publishing house, because they are specialized in publishing official Church publications) and therefore is directed to a Catholic readership–to whom the fact of the bishop permitting and supporting the book clearly means the book was not written with an anti-clerical motive or any other ideological motive against the Church (obviously the case with a substantial portion of other publications about sexual abuse by priests). So to the intended Catholic readership the fact of the author being in harmony with the bishop actually says something about the honesty of the story, it’s written to tell the truth of something very bad and difficult that happened and not mixed up with an agenda antagonistic to the Church.

  • What could be left to say? The entire “issue” is nothing new and I am sure “it”
    will continue. Anytime someone has POWER over someone else, in the church
    or out abuse will happen. I am Protestant and at one time Lutheran and there
    was this Pastor who abused little boys and twenty some years later their was a
    law suit and the church paid the boys who where now young men. Everyone
    claimed that no one knew. “It” was settled and forgotten, and no one really
    knew just what lasting effect “it” had.

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  • patrick

    @ Joseph Gritz

    The book isn’t scheduled to be published until March 31. Your specific observations seem to indicate that you have read an advance copy. Is that the case ?

  • Jordan

    Girls were not the typical victims of the clerical abuses. 90% of victims were boys.