While I'm sure he was trying to be polite (OK, I'm not at all sure he was trying to be polite but I'm determined to give him the benefit of the doubt), this was precisely the wrong thing to say.
"I could write a book someday"? Did he also wake up this morning and say, "Hey! I could write a symphony today" or "I say! It would be jolly good fun to dash off a cracking new opera"?
I'm guessing not. That's because writing a symphony or opera takes years of training. It takes education. It takes actual work. Which is not something that non-writers tend to associate with writing.
But this is a grave mistake. Writing is hard work, even if it doesn't look like it from the outside.
If you're a real writer, you write. Every. Freakin'. Day. Even when you don't enjoy it, especially when you don't enjoy it, you write anyway. You read and read, and then you read some more. You study what works and what doesn't. You put your words out into the world and hope some of them resonate.
You don't sit around and think about writing a book someday. You write, and a book might become one result of many.
Yesterday I read an excellent interview with literary agent Christopher Ferebee, who represents many clients in religious publishing. His final paragraph tells it like it is:
If you had only one piece of advice for a writer who is just getting started, what would it be?
This has changed for me. I used to simply say, “Write about what you’re passionate about.” But Steven Pressfield and others have challenged this for me. Basically, the challenge of being a writer is to write whether you’re feeling it or not. I don’t know if this is original to Michael Hyatt or if he was quoting someone, but his tweet a few days back sums it up perfectly: “Amateurs write when they are inspired. Professionals get inspired when they write.” My advice these days? Write, and don’t stop writing.
Write, and don't stop writing. Great advice.
For me, blogging has been a surprising aspect of that journey. I began blogging seriously in 2010 primarily because my publisher told me to build an audience, and I saw the wisdom in that from a marketing perspective. But to my delight, blogging also made me a better writer -- more responsive to readers, more disciplined, more engaged with the world.
What worked instead was the boring discipline of parking my butt in a chair almost every morning whether I wanted to write or not.
There's little glamor in being an author, and absolutely no glamor in writing itself. As Buffy would say, "It's hard and it's painful and it's every day." But real writers know the value in that.