According to Pew Research, family is the No. 1 source to which Americans look for meaning, fulfillment and satisfaction in their lives. Photo by Mike Scheid/Unsplash/Creative Commons

For most Americans, new research says, family comes first

(RNS) — As many Americans gather with their loves ones for Thanksgiving, a timely new survey from Pew Research confirms what miles of traffic jams and airport lines suggest: Family is the No. 1 source to which Americans look for meaning, fulfillment and satisfaction in their lives.

The survey, conducted in two waves in 2017, found clear and consistent answers among all demographic groups, as nearly 70 percent of Americans mention their family as a source of meaning and fulfillment.

After family, Americans said they drew meaning and satisfaction from being outdoors, spending time with friends, caring for pets and listening to music. In this wide range of pursuits, religion ranked behind those things as something that gave them "a great deal" of meaning.

But a fifth of Americans said religion is the most meaningful aspect of their lives. And among those who do find a great deal of meaning in their religious faith, more than half say it is the single most important source of meaning in their lives.

“If you then follow up and ask to which of these is the most important source of meaning, there religion is a clear second,” said Gregory A. Smith, associate director of research at Pew, and one of the primary researchers of this survey.

No surprise, one group in particular stood out: Two-thirds of evangelicals surveyed said they derive a great deal of meaning from their religious faith. And almost half of evangelicals say religion is the most important source of meaning in their lives.

“Religion second to family as ‘most important’ source of meaning in lives of American adults” Graphic courtesy of Pew Research Center

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But evangelicals weren’t the only polling segment to find meaning in religion. Half of black Americans as a group said they derive “a great deal” of meaning from their religion.

Broken down according to political persuasion, conservative Americans are more prone to find meaning in religion, while liberals find it in creativity and causes, the survey found.

The survey consisted of two rounds: an open-ended questionnaire conducted in September 2017, asking Americans to describe in their own words what makes their lives feel meaningful, and a closed-ended questionnaire conducted in December 2017, asking Americans to rate how much meaning and fulfillment they draw from each of 15 possible sources.

Jamie Aten, executive director of the Humanitarian Disaster Institute at Wheaton College, said the findings about family make sense, especially, he noted, since meaning-making is also a social construct, not just an individual one.

“If you look at the cultural norms within the U.S. , there’s a high emphasis placed on family and you see that reflected out in the survey responses," said Aten. "We also see it valued across most major world religions. Many of our institutions promote family as a highly valued unit. We see that cutting across the messaging we receive on a daily basis.”

The survey also found that Americans with high levels of income and education are more likely to mention friendships, good health, stability and travel.

That too made sense to Aten. He pointed out that people find meaning in those things that are obtainable.

“It points out the real challenges that individuals in a lower income level face: Health may be ranked out of reach because of what people have experienced, oppression or racism or other challenges.”


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  1. May those who can, be blessed in family. And may those who can’t, find fulfillment in other ways.

  2. Creating new families is something most people take for granted. All along the way starting at an early age, people are encouraged to bond with someone of the opposite sex, settle down, marry, have kids, and be generally supported in their marriage by every institution known to man, from church to state to other families, you name it.

    Not so for us gay people. For millennia, society has used every means at its disposal to prevent two people of the same sex from bonding and (heaven forbid) adopting children or getting married, something that’s only been available here in the U.S. for three short years, and which Evangelical Christians are still working feverishly day and night to undermine at the state and local levels, all behind closed doors, and all under-reported by the mass media.

    So those of you whose families enjoy the full support of everyone around you, be grateful. That’s not something everyone has the luxury of enjoying.

  3. It’s curious that anyone would see family and faith as competitive interests. They’re actually complementary. The home is the domestic church.

  4. As armistead maupin put it, there are our biological families, and our logical families.

  5. Apparently Jesus thought it would be an issue. Christianity requires you to put god above your family.

    Luke 14:26 New International Version (NIV)
    26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and

    children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple.

  6. In context, it’s clear that that passage means that nothing should be an obstacle to one’s relationship with God, not even family. But, no, God does not expect his followers to literally hate their families.

  7. Not hate but put to put god first. Mosy christians haven’t had to digest this. As an example, Jehovah’s Witnesses require families to shun and minimize association with disfellowshipped (excommunicateed).

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